When children are young, moms and dads have daily opportunities to serve and teach them important truths. Vital lessons can be shared by what loving parents say and what they do. 

But as the years pass, wise parents realize that though their children are grown, and don’t need daily support, they can still benefit from the inspired example and counsel of mom or dad from time to time.

This is a story of a dad setting a wonderful example of love, service and prayer for his young sons, even when it wasn’t convenient. It’s a great reminder not to let worthwhile activities distract us from the things that matter most, that our highest priority is to lovingly live, and teach, gospel principles in our homes.

In my family, all our children left home by the time they were seventeen or eighteen. When our oldest left for BYU at age seventeen, my wise husband began the tradition of writing her a weekly email. Each Sunday he took time to send a message full of great love, fun family news, expressions of respect and appreciation, and occasional inspired counsel. Over the years he has continued this tradition with each of our children. He prayerfully seeks inspiration and guidance for what he can say that will help them. And the Lord has blessed our children and family because of my husband’s faith, love and diligence.

Each of us can create inspired opportunities to love and teach our children, growing and grown. As we seek the Lord’s help, our loving, inspired service and counsel can be a guiding influence and powerful blessing for those we love.

"A successful parent should never be too busy to capture a moment in a child's life 
when an important lesson can be taught."  ~Elder L. Tom Perry

SALT LAKE CITY —  Boyd K. Packer, president of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, died at home Friday, July 3, 2015, at about 2 p.m. MDT from causes incident to age. He was 90 years old.

“He was truly an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ. From the crown of his head to the soles of his feet, he represented the Savior of the world,” said Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. 

President Packer was serving as president of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles at the time of his passing, a position he held since February 3, 2008. Prior to that, he served as acting president of the Quorum of the Twelve since June 5, 1994. He was ordained an apostle on April 9, 1970, and served for over 50 years as one of the Church's general authorities.

For decades, President Packer declared the gospel of Jesus Christ and played a critical role in the growth and development of the global Church, which now numbers more than 15 million members.

"The lessons that he's taught are long in the hearts of people and in their minds," said Elder Allan Packer, President Packer’s son and a member of the Quorum of the Seventy.

President Packer served on a committee with other Church leaders and scriptural scholars that produced new editions of the LDS scriptures in 1979 and 1981. The new editions featured study aids and formats that would significantly improve Church members’ ability to study the scriptures. Of the project, President Packer said, “With the passing of years, these scriptures will produce successive generations of faithful Christians who know the Lord Jesus Christ and are disposed to obey His will.” He continued, “These references from the four volumes of scripture constitute the most comprehensive compilation of scriptural information on the mission and teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ that has ever been assembled in the history of the world.”

“President Packer always felt that if we could read the words of the Lord we would be far better off and much safer than speculating with our own ideas," Elder Ballard said. "It was not unusual for him to say, ‘Brethren, let me read to you.’ And then he would turn to a very important scripture in the standard works and let us listen to what the Lord had to say. And we all learned at his feet.”

At the Church's April 2014 general conference, President Packer declared, "After all the years that I have lived and taught and served, after the millions of miles I have traveled around the world, with all that I have experienced, there is one great truth that I would share. That is my witness of the Savior Jesus Christ.”

President Packer was born September 10, 1924, in Brigham City, Utah. He was a United States bomber pilot during World War II in the Pacific Theater. An educator by profession, President Packer’s career included service as supervisor of seminaries and institutes of religion for the Church and as a member of the administrative council of Brigham Young University.

President Packer studied at Weber Junior College and subsequently received his bachelor of science and master of science degrees from Utah State University. He received a doctorate in educational administration from Brigham Young University.

He was well respected by Church members as a master teacher of the principles of the gospel. “The study of the doctrines of the gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study of behavior will improve behavior,” he taught.

President Packer was also known as a fearless defender of the gospel of Jesus Christ and spoke boldly about the teachings and doctrine of the Church. “He had a deep testimony of the gospel, an inherent love of the Savior, of the people themselves, and wanted to share with them that which was important,” Elder Allan Packer said. “So I think he, when he knew those things, felt a responsibility to communicate and to share and to teach.”

He authored many books during his lifetime and was also an accomplished artist.

Despite the heavy load of his Church positions, family was the priority for President Packer. His son Allan recently said his father made himself available in the home to take advantage of every opportunity to teach. “He’s still a father, and that’s his number-one priority.” He is survived by his wife, Donna, and their 10 children.

The Church will announce details regarding funeral arrangements as they become available. It is undetermined when the vacancy in the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles will be filled.

Learn more about his service and ministry:
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This news release was originally published on MormonNewsroom.org. It is republished here with permission.

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